07 May 2011
by Tinkerbell Jaynein Dating and Mating, The Male Species = The Mean Species Tags: Heartless-bitches.com, Men Love Bitches, The Bitch
I have come to the conclusion that no guy wants a girl who is easy to win, if she’s easy to win, she’s not a prize. If theres no effort required, they don’t feel as victorious. And men want that prize, they want a trophy on their arm. Pfft. Stupid chasing games. To me, it seems so stupid to play games and do all of that exhausting chasing, which can in fact be damaging to ones mental health … but apparently it works. My own experiences aside, there is actual proof of this. It may not be the greatest or most reliable source in the world, but Fairy Tales! Fairy tales prove that men want the chase, they want the [...]
15 Mar 2011
by Tinkerbell Jaynein Dating and Mating, Online Dating Tags: Fetish, Online Dating, The Officer
So I decided to go on an adventure. This adventure is called … Online Dating. Just like any form of dating whether it be blind dating, speed dating, or just general bar hopping; I’d heard some good stories and I’d heard some bad. The good stories included online dates that developed into wonderful friendships, some steamy encounters, long-term relationships and even a marriage. The bad stories included, well, some very bad dates … A friend of mine explained a story about a really nice guy she was talking to online for several weeks, she told me she had good conversation with him and his pictures looked great, so after a lot of getting to know each other via the web, [...]
01 Feb 2011
by Tinkerbell Jaynein Break-up's Suck, Dating and Mating, The Male Species = The Mean Species, Tinkerbell Jayne Tags: Break-Up, DickHead, Kate Nash, Paramore
Dear Dickhead, Yes you, you know who you are - you are a Dickhead. Sigh. Oh how you’ve changed, you never used to be this Dickhead that you have become. Or maybe you’ve always been a Dickhead and you just have an unexplainable gift for hiding it. You were my best friend, but now you’re simply just a Dickhead. I was blinded by your sneaky disguise – with your sarcastic sense of humour that was so similar to mine, your northern roots and northern charm, and your ability to make me feel so bloody happy. Well, you’re not making me happy anymore – you’re seriously pissing me off Dickhead. I totally misjudged you Dickhead, I thought you were kind and I [...]
30 Jan 2011
by Tinkerbell Jaynein Break-up's Suck, Guest Blogs
This is not Tinkerbell Jayne. It is an imposter; someone who has hacked in to her blog in order to disgrace her name by talking about lesbian themed topics of shame and despair. Either that, or, this is a good a good friend of TJ’s who was invited to guest blog on her site. Whichever you decide to believe, I’d like to think I’m the former – for the thrill. Anyway, back to the topic in hand … A; a girl who was the source of my infatuation. Like all good stories there is a villain, A, and the victim, me. Obviously I am bias being the author but whatever. It was a semi-drunken night and I met a girl, [...]
26 Jan 2011
by Tinkerbell Jaynein Dating and Mating, Tinkerbell Jayne Tags: Heartless-bitches.com, Men who are too dam nice, Mr Nice Guy
No, not that word, I’m referring to the word ‘Nice’, or rather two words – ‘Nice Guy’. These days, calling a bloke a ‘Nice guy’ can be seen as a bit of an insult, rather than a compliment. Girls want to date the Hot Dude, the Bad Boy or (in my case) the Funny Guy, but apparently no-one wants to date the ‘Nice Guy’. I’ve sifted through bits and pieces on the internet about these nice blokes; from blogs written by moody men complaining about how nice guys do in fact finish last, to websites created by women advising nice guys to man up, grow a pair, and be more rough around the edges. I even stumbled upon a site [...]